THURSDAY
I had a "you can't make this shit up" start to Thanksgiving, but then the drama mellowed out thankfully, and got to enjoy all of my extended family
FRIDAY
Lots of Black Friday shopping by myself and with my mother
SATURDAY
Finally got to see my bf after texting him all week. He had a great time at home, b His flight got in after midnight Friday night. We met about 9:30 or 10. My mom had intended to spend the day with me when she figured out I was going to SD, but I had other plans. I made up a white lie and was off to see my bf.
I get to his place about 10:30 and he is watching TV. We watch King of Queens or Mike and Molly, and he books a hotel and I pick out a restaurant to meet my cousin at. I offer to pay for the hotel, but he says my AAA card would suffice.
We drive to SD, but stop in Temec for honey since his friend back home swore that was what I needed for my allergies, then we stopped at a Chilis for a margarita and lonché. We get to SD, find the super awesome hotel and then we go up to the room and fall asleep in each others arms for a few hours. I call the restaurant and make reservations, and seal everything up with my cousin.
We meet my cousin at 6 at an Italian restaurant. Our hotel was close enough to walk thanks to someone's great thinking. I see my cousin standing outside and the man she was with looked nothing like what I told Mike I had imagined him to be. He was a little surprised as we were walking up and told me so. We hug, shake hands, and introduce ourselves. I never told my cousin I was gay in text. I just told her I had a special someone I wanted to introduce her to. She hugs, meets him, and I check into the restaurant. She goes to the restroom to freshen up, text me, and tell me how cute my bf is, as well as his great smile. It makes me melt, let me tell you.
We see the campy humor of my cousin's boyfriend, my cousin asks me all about the family and I divulge. Mike ordered a bottle of wine, which he said later made everything much more bearable. He thought my cousin was super overly excited and asked if she was always like that- I said yes - and he thought the meet was interesting - my cousin wants to meet him again.
We texted afterward and I told her about not being out to her mom, and she agreed it was best not to be. She told me she can't wait to meet again and I told her what a great guy she found.
Mike and I go back to the hotel, watch some kids movie on TV, and fall asleep cuddled up to each other, which was so nice.
SUNDAY
Up, shower, and go to a brunch restaurant in NW SD. We talk about what a strange place it was, then we go to the outlets and don't find a lot. We head home. He makes a pizza for lunch, look at the ads, and I create lesson plans. For dinner he makes chicken marsala- vegetarian style of course. We go to bed about 10:30 and fool around, and I suck him off for a sec.
MONDAY
Up and off to work again... I figure I could do this. Rowdy kids. Grrr. Home at 4. Tell him all about my day and coworkers. About 4:30 he starts dinner and he mentions how we need to vacuum. I offer and get it out of the cupboard and start. I do that for about 30 minutes - and by the time I'm done, I'm warm, and we relax until his shepherd's pie is done. It was quite good. I'd only had it once or twice before. We watch some RHOBH and WWHL. He gets ready to pack for work to go to ATL about 8:30 and I watch TV. We fall asleep about 10:30 and he introduces me to some new 90s show I'd never heard of- I can't remember the name.
TUESDAY
My bf has to get up at 4:30 to catch his flight. He kisses me, tells me he loves me, and then is off once he is dressed. I fall back asleep and am in a deep sleep when I'm awaken at 6:30.
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Horny
I've been off a week and not had the stress of work. I've been hornier and have only taken 1 anxiety pill... hmmm
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Sexuality Survey
1. How old were you when you knew you were gay?
Probably as early as 5-6, and I knew it was a fact in high school, but was too scared to act on it until I was 20.
2. Have you ever had sex with the opposite sex?
Nope, never
3. Who was the first person you came out to?
Gonzo
4. Are you out to your family?
Yes- immediate.
5. Do you want children?
No
6. Do you have more gay friends or straight friends?
I think I have more straight friends.
7. Were you out in school?
No... can't even imagine being for how some of the kids were made fun of in my high school
8. Is your best friend the same sex as you?
Yes
9. If your best friend is the same sex, have you ever had sex with them?
Nope.
10. Have you ever done crystal meth?
Nope
11. Have you ever been in a sling?
No, but willing to try
12. Have you ever done a 3-way?
Yes... it's been a while!
13. Have you ever dressed in drag?
Nope
14. Would you date a drag queen?
Not a chance
15. Are you ‘fixed in your ways’ as it were?
Yes and no
16. Cher or Bette?
Cher
17. Have you dated someone of a different ethnicity?
No
18. Been to Fire Island? Saugatuck? Key West? Ft. Lauderdale? Palm Springs?
Palm Springs
19. How many Madonna CDs do you own?
0 - I do have Material Girl on my iPod
20. Name of your first love?
The Guy
21. Do you still talk to them?
Yes
22. Does size matter?
To a certain extent, yes... it is also how you use what you have
23. Biggest turn on?
Face
24. Biggest turn off?
Arrogance
25. Ever been harassed due to your orientation?
A little
26. Worst gay stereotype that applies to you?
My voice
27. Ever been to a pride rally?
Yes
28. Would you marry if you could?
Whoa... that may be moving a bit too fast, though I do love him
29. Would you rather be rich and smart or young and beautiful?
Rich and smart
30. Do you sculpt your eyebrows?
Yes
31. Do you trim your body hair?
Yes
32. Ever had sex with more than one person in a day?
Yes
33. Ever been to an orgy?
4 guys
34. Which character in “The Women” best reflects you?
?
35. Favorite gay expression ?
Puhlease
36. How may ‘ex’ do you have?
Male and Female - 2
37. Do you believe in fairies?
No.
38. Do you have any tattoos?
No, and have no want for one; they're permanent
39. Do you have any piercings?
No... nipples or ears... one day
40. Would you date a smoker?
As long as they smoked in moderation/weren't a chainer
41. If you are male, do you know many lesbians?
Yes, as of late, I do
42. Do you know anyone who has died from HIV?
No
43. Are you part of a gay organization?
Nope
44. Is your gym cruisy?
No
45. Grindr or Scruff?
Grindr
46. Are your best years behind or in front of you?
Ahead
47. Got Porn?
Many pics and vids
48. Make out music?
I have a whole playlist devoted to sexy songs that are perfect for this. Unfortunately when I'm making out there is never music playing, but if there were it would probably be one of these songs. One song that comes to my head is "It's Your Love" by Tim and Faith... that's like song sex. Lady A's "Need You Now," Garth's "The Dance," "Someone Like You" by Adele, "Always Be My Baby," by Mariah Carey, or Benny Mardones' "Into The Night"
49. Ever been in love with a straight guy?
I have had a few crushes, but never love
50. Did you ever have sex with him?
No.
51. Have you ever been to a nude beach?
No... one day
52. Have you ever been to a bath house?
No... can't say I haven't been tempted to go
53. Ever had sex in public?
In a car
54. What gay gene did you miss out?
The ability to match clothing
Probably as early as 5-6, and I knew it was a fact in high school, but was too scared to act on it until I was 20.
2. Have you ever had sex with the opposite sex?
Nope, never
3. Who was the first person you came out to?
Gonzo
4. Are you out to your family?
Yes- immediate.
5. Do you want children?
No
6. Do you have more gay friends or straight friends?
I think I have more straight friends.
7. Were you out in school?
No... can't even imagine being for how some of the kids were made fun of in my high school
8. Is your best friend the same sex as you?
Yes
9. If your best friend is the same sex, have you ever had sex with them?
Nope.
10. Have you ever done crystal meth?
Nope
11. Have you ever been in a sling?
No, but willing to try
12. Have you ever done a 3-way?
Yes... it's been a while!
13. Have you ever dressed in drag?
Nope
14. Would you date a drag queen?
Not a chance
15. Are you ‘fixed in your ways’ as it were?
Yes and no
16. Cher or Bette?
Cher
17. Have you dated someone of a different ethnicity?
No
18. Been to Fire Island? Saugatuck? Key West? Ft. Lauderdale? Palm Springs?
Palm Springs
19. How many Madonna CDs do you own?
0 - I do have Material Girl on my iPod
20. Name of your first love?
The Guy
21. Do you still talk to them?
Yes
22. Does size matter?
To a certain extent, yes... it is also how you use what you have
23. Biggest turn on?
Face
24. Biggest turn off?
Arrogance
25. Ever been harassed due to your orientation?
A little
26. Worst gay stereotype that applies to you?
My voice
27. Ever been to a pride rally?
Yes
28. Would you marry if you could?
Whoa... that may be moving a bit too fast, though I do love him
29. Would you rather be rich and smart or young and beautiful?
Rich and smart
30. Do you sculpt your eyebrows?
Yes
31. Do you trim your body hair?
Yes
32. Ever had sex with more than one person in a day?
Yes
33. Ever been to an orgy?
4 guys
34. Which character in “The Women” best reflects you?
?
35. Favorite gay expression ?
Puhlease
36. How may ‘ex’ do you have?
Male and Female - 2
37. Do you believe in fairies?
No.
38. Do you have any tattoos?
No, and have no want for one; they're permanent
39. Do you have any piercings?
No... nipples or ears... one day
40. Would you date a smoker?
As long as they smoked in moderation/weren't a chainer
41. If you are male, do you know many lesbians?
Yes, as of late, I do
42. Do you know anyone who has died from HIV?
No
43. Are you part of a gay organization?
Nope
44. Is your gym cruisy?
No
45. Grindr or Scruff?
Grindr
46. Are your best years behind or in front of you?
Ahead
47. Got Porn?
Many pics and vids
48. Make out music?
I have a whole playlist devoted to sexy songs that are perfect for this. Unfortunately when I'm making out there is never music playing, but if there were it would probably be one of these songs. One song that comes to my head is "It's Your Love" by Tim and Faith... that's like song sex. Lady A's "Need You Now," Garth's "The Dance," "Someone Like You" by Adele, "Always Be My Baby," by Mariah Carey, or Benny Mardones' "Into The Night"
49. Ever been in love with a straight guy?
I have had a few crushes, but never love
50. Did you ever have sex with him?
No.
51. Have you ever been to a nude beach?
No... one day
52. Have you ever been to a bath house?
No... can't say I haven't been tempted to go
53. Ever had sex in public?
In a car
54. What gay gene did you miss out?
The ability to match clothing
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Things I am thankful for
HAPPY THANKSGIVING, EVERYONE!!! Hope you are out spending the day with family, friends, and loved ones.
Here's a list of things I am thankful for this year:
- My dream job
- My fun new colleagues
- A mostly gay friendly environment at work
- My sexy boyfriend who is cute, easygoing, and we don't always agree, yet are respectful/never have major arguments
- A caring boyfriend, at that, one who listens to me complain about work and likes to give a different perspective to everything... lol
- A loving family
- Getting to introduce my boyfriend to the family
- My mom helping me to be prepared for this school year
- All of the travel I have been able to do this year like Mississippi for my friend's wedding, my first visit to Mexico, my 2nd visit to see the Mayan pyramids, the Grand Canyon, Yosemite, Sequoia, San Diego, and more...
- Getting to see my cousin from Oklahoma more this year than in the past 5-10 years
- Good health
- Mostly good students
- Getting 2nd row concert tickets to Adele
- Great friends like The Guy, Gonzo, my bestie in MS, Jack Off Buddy, Darla, and several others
The great bloggers I have met and loyal readers who provide support/feedback, as well as bloggers whom I enjoy reading:
Dan in OKC
Mind of Mine
Closet Professor who constantly educates us about gay history
Vic de Vixx
Joey at Who's Life
New Day, New Life
Marvin at Mostly Unfabulous
Aek at The Masks We Wear
Kelly at Rambling Along
Dean at Exploding Doughnut (and that he knows how to spell doughnut instead of donut is hot ;-)
B at All Mixed Up in Ca
Here's a list of things I am thankful for this year:
- My dream job
- My fun new colleagues
- A mostly gay friendly environment at work
- My sexy boyfriend who is cute, easygoing, and we don't always agree, yet are respectful/never have major arguments
- A caring boyfriend, at that, one who listens to me complain about work and likes to give a different perspective to everything... lol
- A loving family
- Getting to introduce my boyfriend to the family
- My mom helping me to be prepared for this school year
- All of the travel I have been able to do this year like Mississippi for my friend's wedding, my first visit to Mexico, my 2nd visit to see the Mayan pyramids, the Grand Canyon, Yosemite, Sequoia, San Diego, and more...
- Getting to see my cousin from Oklahoma more this year than in the past 5-10 years
- Good health
- Mostly good students
- Getting 2nd row concert tickets to Adele
- Great friends like The Guy, Gonzo, my bestie in MS, Jack Off Buddy, Darla, and several others
The great bloggers I have met and loyal readers who provide support/feedback, as well as bloggers whom I enjoy reading:
Dan in OKC
Mind of Mine
Closet Professor who constantly educates us about gay history
Vic de Vixx
Joey at Who's Life
New Day, New Life
Marvin at Mostly Unfabulous
Aek at The Masks We Wear
Kelly at Rambling Along
Dean at Exploding Doughnut (and that he knows how to spell doughnut instead of donut is hot ;-)
B at All Mixed Up in Ca
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Sharing our significant others
My cousin who frequently visits Cali has officially moved out here and wants to do dinner Saturday night. She is moved in with her boyfriend and wants me to meet him. She made a proposition for dinner Saturday night after texting back and forth over the past week or so, and she wants to meet. She wants to introduce me to her man, and I want to introduce her to mine. The problem? I'm not really out to her. I think I've sort of hinted.
I haven't replied to her proposal for dinner, but I want to say something along the lines of, "are we bringing our significant others? I'd like to bring mine, but you should know that he is a guy, and that I am gay." Awkward much?
Or maybe my reply should be like "I would love for you to meet my boyfriend."
Maybe I should call her because coming out over text is so impersonal?
I haven't replied to her proposal for dinner, but I want to say something along the lines of, "are we bringing our significant others? I'd like to bring mine, but you should know that he is a guy, and that I am gay." Awkward much?
Or maybe my reply should be like "I would love for you to meet my boyfriend."
Maybe I should call her because coming out over text is so impersonal?
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