Pee and more

I get to The Guy's house at 5p.m. and have to pee. He is in the office watching "Zohan" and about to fall asleep. He asks if I brought my computer. I did and we go into the living room to get it out. He plays around with it and it doesn't act sluggish or slow when he is using it. I get up shortly after and have to pee. He is on amazon.com looking at TVs in the meantime. He is still going to get Josh a TV. The Guy's a/c or heat kicks on and it says to "change filter." His thermostat talks! He gets up, changes it, and I run to the bathroom. The Guy and I go to the kitchen for dinner. We have some turkey sandwiches like the other day. Delicious with that mustard sauce. The Guy talks about how sleepy he is and we go in and lay down on the bed for about an hour and 20 minutes. He asks about my dad and I tell him. I said "not good," which caused him worry. My dad's recovery has not been well. He is not doing well. I don't really want to talk about it, but I had a hard time not crying in The Guy's bed. I did let out a few whimpers, but I managed to remain strong. The Guy gets up and asks if I want to go to Best Buy.

We go to Best Buy and look at TVs. We talk about how stupid the people are camped out for Black Friday in the rain with their canopies and tents. Nothing is worth spending 2 days, you're not saving a lot of money, and there is no fun in the crowds we deduced. The Guy is getting Josh an LG 40'' TV for Christmas. He asked what I wanted for Christmas and I said I don't know. I decided after he asked me I'll just say that I have some things I like, but I don't need anything and mention some of the things I like and he can choose. He asked if I wanted a Nintendo Wii. I said I don't know. If he was willing, I would have gladly accepted one. The Guy returned an external hard drive and Apple Router, which totaled over $500, so he figured he could spend $239 for a Wii. He said for Josh. I said no. He said maybe as an activity when he goes to Josh's house. I said ok to that.

In the car on the way to Best Buy and on the way back I tell The Guy about the date with Chris, the Puerto Rican guy. He was hung up on the 2 issues I was. Chris only shops Abercrombie and Hollister. Clothes are not everything. He realized we're both extremely organized, go-getters, but he isn't as balanced as I am, or he may be more of a workaholic. Either Chris is really upfront with me and I have to deal with that, or he isn't. What I mean is sex. He talked about only wanting it once a week. Maybe he is being very upfront and honest, or not. He deduced we need another date. The Guy couldn't come up with a good 3rd date. That's where I need your help.


What would a good 3rd date be? I want to show my spontaneity with this guy. I want something fun, maybe dinner and ___. I told Chris I was spontaneous and want to show that. He'll probably say ok to whatever, but he'll have to work his schedule around it. Soooooo what would a good date be? Any ideas? I'm open to anything...

I went back to the bathroom to pee, then The Guy told me how I've peed nonstop tonight, how the bathroom is still there, and then he told me I looked well. He said my texts to him today were witty and sarcastic. Josh was running late training, so we pushed our hangout from 4:30 to 5:00. I texted him to tell Josh that he needs to get on the ball and that it was ok. The Guy said he knows my world is crumbling, yet I'm still picking myself up, which was so nice to hear.