Been working hard at the gym - proud of myself - about 30 minutes of weights, 30 minutes of cardio. Committed to an hour at the gym each time I go this summer. I've noticed good results.
Also been into yoga. I was reintrigued when my partner's best friend came and was telling how great it was, then as we were fooling around (not like that, she's a girl!) she told me how I needed yoga because I have next to no flexibility. Leaning over and touching my toes is hard. Sit and reach is worse. I found an app that I gel with - it is fast paced - and not all about relaxing. Because honestly, I find yoga anything but relaxing. I like that I can do it while watching TV. I like that I am noticing some improvement in flexibilty.
Hung out with my parents yesterday and today. Went to their house yesterday, then out to lunch today. Good times. Went to a Mexican place. Yum.
My mom is recovering from a hip replacement and its not going well. She's not really that mobile.
I find myself obsessed with The Woody Show on 98.7 - I like all the DJs and find myself listening to the podcast at the gym since I am arriving at the gym after they end during the summer. I find music doesn't do it for me at the gym. I need someone talking to me distracting me from what I am doing. Greg Gory is my fav. Woody and Ravey are next. Sebas is fun too. I like Menace's voice too. Throwback Thursday and the Friday Turn Up are fun.
One of my new fav's I heard on 98.7.
Right now life has calmed down, so I am making plans with a bunch of friends. Remember Foot Fetish? We have come closer than we have been in in a while, and we are trying to have him and his partner over Friday. He has been with him 4 years. I went to FF's birthday last night.
So wish I could go to the big ed tech conference next week. Money got in the way. Boo.
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Wednesday, June 22, 2016
Monday, February 1, 2016
Almost a month of no posting
I cannot believe how crazy this month has been. Gather round and let's talk about it.
Work ---
While on vacation in the Caribbean I had a voicemail from 3 different leaders at my school/in the district asking me to take a temporary position outside of the classroom at my school due to a shit storm that occurred at it and another school prior to going off on break. I agreed because it is good experience and when a district office person asks you to do something, you do it.
So I've been out of the classroom for the better part of a month. My new position is not bad. I have all of the qualifications and skills necessary to do the job. It involves little student interaction, which I'm told with how terrible my classes are right now, that is a good thing. Long term, I'm not sure about that...
The position could become permanent - we will find that out as the year progresses.
School ---
I finished my last admin credential class this month, which is awesome. Before my vice principal finished his. LOL. Part of the shit storm.
So back to that, the class was painful. I had no interest in it. The book was of little help. The professor was of little help also.
Had a ridiculous 75 slide PowerPoint to complete that just wasn't writing itself. It took some serious drinking on my end to get it there, and then the only comment I got from the professor was how I didn't cover the topic. Oh well, I got an A, still.
Family ---
Sister is a hot mess. We were at dinner a few weeks back and she swore one of the waiters was her student. Didn't even give her the time of day. I went up to the guy afterward and asked if he went to the schools she has taught at. He didn't. She lied.
Things are going well with my partner and I. His parents have been here for a few weeks. They're fun. His mom is nice and easygoing. His dad is fun, especially since he treats us to dinner, and is amusing in just the stuff he says. They're here for a few more weeks.
Me ---
Little gym time with the parents here, but I am making it a point to walk and stay active however that may be.
My favorite drink of the moment - a Manhattan. I can make a pretty bomb ass one if I do say so myself.
I discovered when I get too overheated at night from too many covers is when I will usually start dreaming. And I have some weird ass dreams. A lot of them about my grandma's property. GRRR.
Work ---
While on vacation in the Caribbean I had a voicemail from 3 different leaders at my school/in the district asking me to take a temporary position outside of the classroom at my school due to a shit storm that occurred at it and another school prior to going off on break. I agreed because it is good experience and when a district office person asks you to do something, you do it.
So I've been out of the classroom for the better part of a month. My new position is not bad. I have all of the qualifications and skills necessary to do the job. It involves little student interaction, which I'm told with how terrible my classes are right now, that is a good thing. Long term, I'm not sure about that...
The position could become permanent - we will find that out as the year progresses.
School ---
I finished my last admin credential class this month, which is awesome. Before my vice principal finished his. LOL. Part of the shit storm.
So back to that, the class was painful. I had no interest in it. The book was of little help. The professor was of little help also.
Had a ridiculous 75 slide PowerPoint to complete that just wasn't writing itself. It took some serious drinking on my end to get it there, and then the only comment I got from the professor was how I didn't cover the topic. Oh well, I got an A, still.
Family ---
Sister is a hot mess. We were at dinner a few weeks back and she swore one of the waiters was her student. Didn't even give her the time of day. I went up to the guy afterward and asked if he went to the schools she has taught at. He didn't. She lied.
Things are going well with my partner and I. His parents have been here for a few weeks. They're fun. His mom is nice and easygoing. His dad is fun, especially since he treats us to dinner, and is amusing in just the stuff he says. They're here for a few more weeks.
Me ---
Little gym time with the parents here, but I am making it a point to walk and stay active however that may be.
My favorite drink of the moment - a Manhattan. I can make a pretty bomb ass one if I do say so myself.
I discovered when I get too overheated at night from too many covers is when I will usually start dreaming. And I have some weird ass dreams. A lot of them about my grandma's property. GRRR.
Friday, May 29, 2015
Ouch ouch fuck fuck
Yesterday at work I played in the students vs. staff softball game. And we have the worst student pitchers. The balls are thrown all over. And they have been playing softball for several weeks!
I can tell you the last time I held a bat - last year during the softball game on the last day of school. I hit pretty well last year despite sucky pitches. I think part of it was that this kid pitching today couldn't pitch to lefties. All of us lefties were getting horrible pitches.
So we were playing. I struck out my first at bat, and was swinging at random shit. In the 8th I made my final at bat, and at bat, I hit a ball that made it to about 2nd base. When I hit I don't know if I was in surprise, but I took off running, or maybe hadn't yet. I made a small jump, came down on my knee, am starting to tremble, and feel my right leg extend to the right as I'm coming down. I'm losing my balance, but manage to keep my grace and stay on my feet, and make it to first base. I made it. WHEW. SAFE. It must be a muscle spasm or something, but it hurts like hell. It is my side calf and front calf that hurts. I knew this would hurt for days. I am hoping it is just a spasm. It is not a sprain. It doesn't feel like the bone. But OH... it hurts. I am walking around like the senior history teacher, with a limp. I already have a terrible left knee, so this isn't welcoming news. I'm optimistic it is only temporary.
All I could think about after the injury was ouch ouch fuck fuck.
I massaged it - whether or not I should have - it felt better. I also iced it most of last night. I had my leg up on the couch all night. Now I'm going to go into work stumbling around like a fool today.
I can tell you the last time I held a bat - last year during the softball game on the last day of school. I hit pretty well last year despite sucky pitches. I think part of it was that this kid pitching today couldn't pitch to lefties. All of us lefties were getting horrible pitches.
So we were playing. I struck out my first at bat, and was swinging at random shit. In the 8th I made my final at bat, and at bat, I hit a ball that made it to about 2nd base. When I hit I don't know if I was in surprise, but I took off running, or maybe hadn't yet. I made a small jump, came down on my knee, am starting to tremble, and feel my right leg extend to the right as I'm coming down. I'm losing my balance, but manage to keep my grace and stay on my feet, and make it to first base. I made it. WHEW. SAFE. It must be a muscle spasm or something, but it hurts like hell. It is my side calf and front calf that hurts. I knew this would hurt for days. I am hoping it is just a spasm. It is not a sprain. It doesn't feel like the bone. But OH... it hurts. I am walking around like the senior history teacher, with a limp. I already have a terrible left knee, so this isn't welcoming news. I'm optimistic it is only temporary.
All I could think about after the injury was ouch ouch fuck fuck.
I massaged it - whether or not I should have - it felt better. I also iced it most of last night. I had my leg up on the couch all night. Now I'm going to go into work stumbling around like a fool today.
Wednesday, May 13, 2015
Down 7
I've been doing cardio 3-4 times a week at the gym. Guess it is paying off. I'm down 7 pounds. From 171, which was my absolute highest weight ever, to 164. I vowed I will not let 171 show ever again. Down to 164 and dropping.
Monday, February 9, 2015
Exercise suggestions
I hate to say it - I can no longer eat or drink anything without doing a lot of exercise to burn off the calories. A couple of glasses of wine or alcohol here or there, some sweets, and savory foods thrown in all catch up with me.
I've been stuck around 170lbs for weeks.
So at the gym I've been switching up what I do - I go 4 days, and do cardio 2, then weights 2 (legs and upper body).
My partner after 5 years of saying he would never go to the gym has just given in. He is telling me my issue is I do weights. He said I should just be going and doing straight cardio each day. He said it is not about having muscle definition - it is about being skinny. He brings up the example of our friend B, who is into swimming. He swims 4-5 times a week for 30 minutes a day. He has the same exact build as me. SAME. If you were to place us side by side in our bathing suits you would see the tone in the same places. He is, however, able to burn and keep the weight off. Is it because he is doing cardio? I am debating. He has lost 2 pant sizes. I am thinking of switching to 3 days cardio and 1 day weights.
Any suggestions to help me bring sexy back?
I've been stuck around 170lbs for weeks.
So at the gym I've been switching up what I do - I go 4 days, and do cardio 2, then weights 2 (legs and upper body).
My partner after 5 years of saying he would never go to the gym has just given in. He is telling me my issue is I do weights. He said I should just be going and doing straight cardio each day. He said it is not about having muscle definition - it is about being skinny. He brings up the example of our friend B, who is into swimming. He swims 4-5 times a week for 30 minutes a day. He has the same exact build as me. SAME. If you were to place us side by side in our bathing suits you would see the tone in the same places. He is, however, able to burn and keep the weight off. Is it because he is doing cardio? I am debating. He has lost 2 pant sizes. I am thinking of switching to 3 days cardio and 1 day weights.
Any suggestions to help me bring sexy back?
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
To get myself motivated to lose some weight/get back into the gym regularly
Current Stats:
Height - 6'1
Weight - 165lbs
Goal - Lose 10 pounds
Goal - Do at least 2 hours of cardio every week at the gym/15 miles a week
Goal - Abs at least 3 times a week, at least 100 of some exercise
*** Do AbRipperX (P90X) when I go 2 or more days not going to the gym
Goal - 3 times a week at the gym I will have a leg, arm, and chest day
Goal - Gym 4-5 days a week
Goal - fit better into size 29/30 pants
Truth - I used to be between a 28 and 29, suddenly I'm at a 30, and edging toward a 31, which I refuse to let happen....
Height - 6'1
Weight - 165lbs
Goal - Lose 10 pounds
Goal - Do at least 2 hours of cardio every week at the gym/15 miles a week
Goal - Abs at least 3 times a week, at least 100 of some exercise
*** Do AbRipperX (P90X) when I go 2 or more days not going to the gym
Goal - 3 times a week at the gym I will have a leg, arm, and chest day
Goal - Gym 4-5 days a week
Goal - fit better into size 29/30 pants
Truth - I used to be between a 28 and 29, suddenly I'm at a 30, and edging toward a 31, which I refuse to let happen....
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Keith
Keith- That man, he irritates me more and more everytime I see him. I saw him last week at the gym. He came up to me as I was working out. I continued working on the bicep machine as he asked me how everything was going- or I think that's what he was asking. I saw his lips move and so I replied with something as I had headphones in my ears and couldn't hear him. I finally took my headphones out of my ears and he was on some tangent about how life was so hard, how busy he was, and I told him straight out I was leaving and walked away.
He messaged me Monday night on facebook, which I ignored.
Last night I went to the gym and was again working on the bicep machine. Headphones were up, he came over and started talking, and I just said hi. He was talking, his mouth stopped moving, so I said "yes, uh huh, yep" to make it look like I had been paying attention. He went off on a 3-4 minute rant about how he has so much work and needs to get groceries, doesn't want to cook, needs wine, needs beer, and I didn't give a rats ass. I told him to he better get moving and get out of here (LA Fitness). He told me he would.
I go out to my car about 5 minutes later and he is lost wandering the parking lot looking for his car. He parked next to me. Then he tried to come over and start talking, but I had my window up and I made a hand motion indicating I was leaving/in a hurry. He made a sad face and I drove off.
He messaged me Monday night on facebook, which I ignored.
Last night I went to the gym and was again working on the bicep machine. Headphones were up, he came over and started talking, and I just said hi. He was talking, his mouth stopped moving, so I said "yes, uh huh, yep" to make it look like I had been paying attention. He went off on a 3-4 minute rant about how he has so much work and needs to get groceries, doesn't want to cook, needs wine, needs beer, and I didn't give a rats ass. I told him to he better get moving and get out of here (LA Fitness). He told me he would.
I go out to my car about 5 minutes later and he is lost wandering the parking lot looking for his car. He parked next to me. Then he tried to come over and start talking, but I had my window up and I made a hand motion indicating I was leaving/in a hurry. He made a sad face and I drove off.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Tried to hug me
Keith was at the gym last night when I was. I was getting ready to leave and had just finished working out on the shoulder press when in the corner of my eye I see someone walking up to me really fast. I think how strange that was since we were in a gym and who follows/comes up on someone like that? I turn around and there he was there with his arms out like he wanted to hug me.
I turned around, gave him a look of skepticism, then he had a huge grin on his face, and said hi. He said he wanted to either poke me or hug me. I replied, "in a gym?" He smiled and shook his head yes. I said "oh." He said he was there to work out, had a bad day since someone at Staples pissed him off, had a nephew coming into town next week, had been struggling at work, and a dozen other things. I just replied "ok.........." I told him I had to go. He asked where. I said "away" and he gave me a frown as I walked away.
The more I am around him the more agitated he makes me. I said maybe 5 words...
I turned around, gave him a look of skepticism, then he had a huge grin on his face, and said hi. He said he wanted to either poke me or hug me. I replied, "in a gym?" He smiled and shook his head yes. I said "oh." He said he was there to work out, had a bad day since someone at Staples pissed him off, had a nephew coming into town next week, had been struggling at work, and a dozen other things. I just replied "ok.........." I told him I had to go. He asked where. I said "away" and he gave me a frown as I walked away.
The more I am around him the more agitated he makes me. I said maybe 5 words...
Monday, May 9, 2011
My beef with Keith over beef
Many of you will remember my beef with Keith over how he has not thanked me for house sitting for him a few months back. I ignored all of his texts, calls, and avoided him in person. I saw Jack Off Buddy, his boyfriend, and Keith all talking at the gym a few weeks back and went in the other direction. I inadvertently pulled my car in across from Keith at the gym a few weeks back, saw him, waved, and went to work out. I get a text from him later that it was too late to work out.
After talking to someone else I decided what it was that bothered me about Keith. He is a user. He has used me, and this was something I didn't blog about out of shame.
Back in December he texted me one afternoon to hang out. I said that would be fine. He said we were going on a work adventure and if I would help him for a few hours he would treat me to dinner. I said that was cool. I help him do what he needs, which was measuring a shopping mall, counting the parking spaces, and size of each unit/building. After, we drove by what looked to be a ritzy, 60s style steakhouse in the OC. He asked if it sounded good and I said it did. We go in, grab drinks, then head to the table where we talk about lots of random stuff like his ex, friends, and the usual. When we were grabbing drinks he assured me I should order whatever I want as he was covering it. I order the $30 cheapest meal house specialty steak. He orders the most expensive wine on the menu at about $75 and I partake. He orders his meal, which is double mine, and dessert. When the bill comes Keith said things like he couldn't afford to me, he always does 50/50 when he goes out with friends and it comes to the bill, he talked about how his bills all came due at once. Poor him. Then why did he say we were going to this expensive place? I was student teaching and had not received a paycheck since August or September- and he knew that very well- I told him several times. I spelled out I was not getting paid. I told him I was relying on money from my parents, which was the absolute truth. I couldn't afford the $230+ ticket not including tip. I paid my portion, which was like $113 excluding tip. He said that then I can afford it because I can ask them to pay for it and tried to put words in my mouth. And were we going to have a showdown at the table? I should have challenged him. Maybe? I just put my credit card on the table in shame, then went home and begged mommy and daddy to pay, which thankfully they did begrudgingly. I was quite the bitch going home. I was full of snark. I think Keith found it hilarious.
I went out with him probably 2 months back after seeing him at the gym. We went to Islands because he was hungry. He was one of those who was so precise that the bill be split just so meaning he was 100% sure I was paying for mine and he was paying for his. Um... most people split down the middle and it isn't an issue... and prior he had. And my chips/guac and drink were far less than his. And sure it would have cost me more, but the annoyance of going through and doing it his way was not worth it.
I ran into Keith a few Saturdays ago at the gym after months of avoiding him. I walk into the locker room and see him there naked, which was way more than I wanted to see. He says "hey you." I was completely out of it. I was tired from not sleeping last Friday night, being up early on Saturday, and it was 95 out. I said "hey" in a fatigued voice and walked to wash my hands since I was ready to leave. He asked how I was and where I have been. I said busy. He said I was tan. I told him I'd been subbing PE recently. He said he could see. He said I was looking sexy. I said thanks. He started in on his pity party. His mom had heart surgery, a bypass, and pneumonia or something over the past few weeks, he can't afford his bills again, he missed his mortgage payment, and how was I? I said I was great. I told him I was on my way to the bank and to meet a friend, so he hurried up to dress and we walked out of the gym together. He told me he missed me and wanted to hang out soon. He reached his arms out for a hug and grudgingly I gave in. I get in my car and leave.
I ran into him at the gym Tuesday night and was not my usual self. I saw him walking out as I was walking him. I saw him, he stopped in the crowded entryway, and he asked if I was coming or going. I said coming. He said he was hoping I was going. I said I was running late and so got to the gym late. He said "okie" and I said goodbye since we were getting bumped in the hall.
At least I realize what kind of friend Keith is and I know I won't let this happen to me again.
After talking to someone else I decided what it was that bothered me about Keith. He is a user. He has used me, and this was something I didn't blog about out of shame.
Back in December he texted me one afternoon to hang out. I said that would be fine. He said we were going on a work adventure and if I would help him for a few hours he would treat me to dinner. I said that was cool. I help him do what he needs, which was measuring a shopping mall, counting the parking spaces, and size of each unit/building. After, we drove by what looked to be a ritzy, 60s style steakhouse in the OC. He asked if it sounded good and I said it did. We go in, grab drinks, then head to the table where we talk about lots of random stuff like his ex, friends, and the usual. When we were grabbing drinks he assured me I should order whatever I want as he was covering it. I order the $30 cheapest meal house specialty steak. He orders the most expensive wine on the menu at about $75 and I partake. He orders his meal, which is double mine, and dessert. When the bill comes Keith said things like he couldn't afford to me, he always does 50/50 when he goes out with friends and it comes to the bill, he talked about how his bills all came due at once. Poor him. Then why did he say we were going to this expensive place? I was student teaching and had not received a paycheck since August or September- and he knew that very well- I told him several times. I spelled out I was not getting paid. I told him I was relying on money from my parents, which was the absolute truth. I couldn't afford the $230+ ticket not including tip. I paid my portion, which was like $113 excluding tip. He said that then I can afford it because I can ask them to pay for it and tried to put words in my mouth. And were we going to have a showdown at the table? I should have challenged him. Maybe? I just put my credit card on the table in shame, then went home and begged mommy and daddy to pay, which thankfully they did begrudgingly. I was quite the bitch going home. I was full of snark. I think Keith found it hilarious.
I went out with him probably 2 months back after seeing him at the gym. We went to Islands because he was hungry. He was one of those who was so precise that the bill be split just so meaning he was 100% sure I was paying for mine and he was paying for his. Um... most people split down the middle and it isn't an issue... and prior he had. And my chips/guac and drink were far less than his. And sure it would have cost me more, but the annoyance of going through and doing it his way was not worth it.
I ran into Keith a few Saturdays ago at the gym after months of avoiding him. I walk into the locker room and see him there naked, which was way more than I wanted to see. He says "hey you." I was completely out of it. I was tired from not sleeping last Friday night, being up early on Saturday, and it was 95 out. I said "hey" in a fatigued voice and walked to wash my hands since I was ready to leave. He asked how I was and where I have been. I said busy. He said I was tan. I told him I'd been subbing PE recently. He said he could see. He said I was looking sexy. I said thanks. He started in on his pity party. His mom had heart surgery, a bypass, and pneumonia or something over the past few weeks, he can't afford his bills again, he missed his mortgage payment, and how was I? I said I was great. I told him I was on my way to the bank and to meet a friend, so he hurried up to dress and we walked out of the gym together. He told me he missed me and wanted to hang out soon. He reached his arms out for a hug and grudgingly I gave in. I get in my car and leave.
I ran into him at the gym Tuesday night and was not my usual self. I saw him walking out as I was walking him. I saw him, he stopped in the crowded entryway, and he asked if I was coming or going. I said coming. He said he was hoping I was going. I said I was running late and so got to the gym late. He said "okie" and I said goodbye since we were getting bumped in the hall.
At least I realize what kind of friend Keith is and I know I won't let this happen to me again.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Random LOLs from my life
The other night at school a group of girls were talking about what hair they have lasered:
L: I wouldn't laser down there. I want hair down there so that when I am old and wrinkly I can't see the wrinkles down there.
A few moments later...
L: Have you ever seen a man want to put his ___ into a wrinkly ____?
Also on the lasering:
V: I am having a hard time sitting down today. I just got my bikini lasered.
A friend of mine posted a status on facebook:
C: Lady Gaga is the best country singer I've ever heard.
Overheard at the gym:
I am more bi than a cow- colorwise, you know?
L: I wouldn't laser down there. I want hair down there so that when I am old and wrinkly I can't see the wrinkles down there.
A few moments later...
L: Have you ever seen a man want to put his ___ into a wrinkly ____?
Also on the lasering:
V: I am having a hard time sitting down today. I just got my bikini lasered.
A friend of mine posted a status on facebook:
C: Lady Gaga is the best country singer I've ever heard.
Overheard at the gym:
I am more bi than a cow- colorwise, you know?
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Ran into The Mike's at the gym
Was at the gym this morning and ran into The Mikes. WOW, they have changed. I was doing sit ups at one of the mats as they walked in. They both smiled, came over to me like nothing ever happened. I had no choice but to be cordial and couldn't really just walk away.
The first thing I noticed was WOW, Mike #1 has gained weight. He has had a heavy frame as long as I've known him. He was probably 5'8 and 180lbs or so, but in the past year has probably gained 100 more pounds. He was sort of waddling into the gym. It is mean, but I was thinking "good, you deserve it," although this is unrelated to everything else. I know that's mean, but that's my thought at the time. And dang, what happened to him? No clue.
Mike #2 also put on probably 20 or so pounds that he had lost. He also looked rather homely I guess you could describe it. He had a full beard and long straggly hair going on and reminded me of Garth from "Wayne's World."
They came over to me and wanted to shake my hand, wanted to know what I was doing there, how we haven't seen each other in so long. I was said something generic, like I was "working out." I asked what they were doing and joked that I saw them doing more standing around than working out like they claimed they were there to do. And their whole being friendly thing I'm sure was just an act. Dumbasses.
The first thing I noticed was WOW, Mike #1 has gained weight. He has had a heavy frame as long as I've known him. He was probably 5'8 and 180lbs or so, but in the past year has probably gained 100 more pounds. He was sort of waddling into the gym. It is mean, but I was thinking "good, you deserve it," although this is unrelated to everything else. I know that's mean, but that's my thought at the time. And dang, what happened to him? No clue.
Mike #2 also put on probably 20 or so pounds that he had lost. He also looked rather homely I guess you could describe it. He had a full beard and long straggly hair going on and reminded me of Garth from "Wayne's World."
They came over to me and wanted to shake my hand, wanted to know what I was doing there, how we haven't seen each other in so long. I was said something generic, like I was "working out." I asked what they were doing and joked that I saw them doing more standing around than working out like they claimed they were there to do. And their whole being friendly thing I'm sure was just an act. Dumbasses.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Tutor Aerobics
Many of my coworkers from the high school go to LA Fitness, like myself. Viv does the ab aerobics class every Monday night. I'd often see her as she was leaving it. We got to talking after one of those times and she suggested we make it a Tutor Aerobics night. It started as Viv, Gonzo, and myself. Joe and Karl now join us so I'm not the lone guy in the class.
So Monday nights are now Dinner and Aerobics. We text each other Monday and decide on a place to eat. Last night we had burritos at Charo Chicken, then we walked across the parking lot to the fitness center for our aerobics. It is a pretty intense class. You're moving nonstop and adding risers to the step. We all pretty much have the moves down. There is an emphasis on abs, so there are several moves we do that focus on that. Then the last 15 minutes of class it is "intense abs" where you put the aerobics equipment away and you do ab exercises like the bicycle, curl ups, and several other things. Your abs kill the next day. I enjoy getting to hang out with my coworkers and talk.
So Monday nights are now Dinner and Aerobics. We text each other Monday and decide on a place to eat. Last night we had burritos at Charo Chicken, then we walked across the parking lot to the fitness center for our aerobics. It is a pretty intense class. You're moving nonstop and adding risers to the step. We all pretty much have the moves down. There is an emphasis on abs, so there are several moves we do that focus on that. Then the last 15 minutes of class it is "intense abs" where you put the aerobics equipment away and you do ab exercises like the bicycle, curl ups, and several other things. Your abs kill the next day. I enjoy getting to hang out with my coworkers and talk.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Free 2 months at the gym
The LA Fitness I go to has been remodeling for the past 3-4 months. The first thing they did was move the treadmills from upstairs downstairs, making things more crowded. Then they took out a bunch of the free weights and moved the treadmills there. Then they took out about half of the treadmills and put them in the rooms they have the exercise classes.
Then about 3 weeks ago they took out about half of the upper and lower body machines. We have 2 leg extension machines, 2 seated leg curl machines, and a calf extension machine. That's over half of the machines gone; the leg extension, hip abduction machines, standing calf, seated leg press, and the other calf machine.
They took a bicep and tricep machine, 2 ab machines, a deltoid machine, a couple shoulder and chest press machines. They left the cable row machines nobody uses.
It has been 3-4 months and the remodel is still not done. You now have to wait 5-10 minutes for a machine, and a lot of the machines are gone, so you have less options to work out with.
I was slightly annoyed last night and decided to complain to the Nikki, the manager. I told her that I am paying good money to come here each month (really only $8.50 or so- we're on a family plan with 4 people for $34), but I didn't feel that I am getting the most out of my membership and was inclined to cancel because so many machines are gone, and working out can be an all day thing with having to wait for all of the machines. I said that it was unacceptable and was very upset. She said that she would give me 2 free months, which should be how long it takes to finish the remodel. Good.
Then about 3 weeks ago they took out about half of the upper and lower body machines. We have 2 leg extension machines, 2 seated leg curl machines, and a calf extension machine. That's over half of the machines gone; the leg extension, hip abduction machines, standing calf, seated leg press, and the other calf machine.
They took a bicep and tricep machine, 2 ab machines, a deltoid machine, a couple shoulder and chest press machines. They left the cable row machines nobody uses.
It has been 3-4 months and the remodel is still not done. You now have to wait 5-10 minutes for a machine, and a lot of the machines are gone, so you have less options to work out with.
I was slightly annoyed last night and decided to complain to the Nikki, the manager. I told her that I am paying good money to come here each month (really only $8.50 or so- we're on a family plan with 4 people for $34), but I didn't feel that I am getting the most out of my membership and was inclined to cancel because so many machines are gone, and working out can be an all day thing with having to wait for all of the machines. I said that it was unacceptable and was very upset. She said that she would give me 2 free months, which should be how long it takes to finish the remodel. Good.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Pandora Radio
Pandora Radio is my newest favorite thing. My boss at the high school, Mrs. C introduced me to it on the Knotts field trip and at her Christmas party. I have entered about 10 different artists I like including Pink, Mariah Carey, Phil Vassar, Sugarland, Maná, Tim McGraw, Faith Hill, and Rick Springfield.
Here's a look at what we were listening to today while I was working out:
Jammin- Bob Marley
Hero- Mariah Carey
Little Red Corvette- Prince
Bendita Tú Luz- Maná
Eres- Café Tacuba
Single Ladies- Beyoncé
Just Might Make Me Believe- Sugarland
Vallerie- The Monkees
Take On Me- A-ha
Take Me As I Am- Faith Hill
Fun mix..... and you never know what will play next.... totally recommend it.... www.pandora.com
Here's a look at what we were listening to today while I was working out:
Jammin- Bob Marley
Hero- Mariah Carey
Little Red Corvette- Prince
Bendita Tú Luz- Maná
Eres- Café Tacuba
Single Ladies- Beyoncé
Just Might Make Me Believe- Sugarland
Vallerie- The Monkees
Take On Me- A-ha
Take Me As I Am- Faith Hill
Fun mix..... and you never know what will play next.... totally recommend it.... www.pandora.com
Friday, October 31, 2008
Photos of my ectomorph body type
I hadn't really talked to The Guy since Monday after I got his thank you for the card text. Tuesday we talked in the morning after he swore I called him. I didn't, but it was nice to talk to him. Wednesday afternoon I did call him, but he was at the gym. He did call me, but we tried calling each other back. He was on his way to the doctor when I called him at 4:15. He had an ear infection for the 3rd time and the doctor said his ear looked like shredded meat. It was one of the worst ear infections the doctor had ever seen. The Guy was actually given a month of antibiotics to treat. He was texting me while he was at the doctor's office and asked what I was doing and if I wanted to grab dinner. A few texts later he is asking me if I want salmon and potatoes from that one place. I told him it was up to him. I wasn't really tasting salmon, but he obviously was, so if he wanted it he was going to get it. He was out and his doctor's office is up by that place, which is why I think he suggested that.
I take off about 4:40 as he is leaving the office and we have a nice talk. He is asking me about how my day went. I told him about my Spanish class and the midterm we just took. It is on literary terms like "synecdoche, anaphora, alliteration, onomatopoeia, personification, sinestesia (can't think of the English equivalent, and apostrophe." There were a bunch more, but you get the picture. AP English 11th grade terms. That's where I knew the terms from, and had I not, would have struggled like so many seemed to be in the class. He asked the format, how it was set up, then asked me the definition of each. He said it sounds like I felt confident. I gave him the sentences I remember from Spanish and what I said they were and he verified my answer. Then he told me how he can see that I'm really happy with my Spanish lit teacher I have.
I got to his place at 5:25 after many texts about what we were doing and waiting in traffic. He is standing at the door, greets me, and then starts pouring food for me. He asks if I eat salad because he had ordered salad. You probably remember a few weeks back how we had the argument over what vegetables were, how I don't eat those, and how I don't eat salad. Well, it is not the case. The Guy even got on me the other night in front of Josh for not eating salad. I had to prove him wrong then, because the night before I had a chicken topped salad from Applebees. Anyways, we pile the salmon, potatoes, and salad on our plates, then go in the living room. The salad is wonderful.
During dinner he tells me about Josh. I had been wanting to hear since Monday. After I left Sunday night they watched the "Hulk" and a really scary movie that The Guy didn't want to and joked that he'd end up in Josh's lap. They talked during the movie. Josh kept moving closer to The Guy. Josh was talking about how he truly feels confused. He said he is unhappy with Jackie, his girlfriend, for not being supportive of him in all of his endeavors. He said he doesn't know if it is just him being around The Guy and getting a lot more attention than around Jackie that makes him like The Guy. The Guy repositioned himself and Josh ended up laying on his chest. Josh talked so openly about how the night before he had a dream about kissing a guy. The Guy saw this was the perfect opportunity to swoop in and give Josh a kiss on the lips. He gave 3 short pecks. They continued watching the movie, then when Josh left texted The Guy saying he had an incredible time. Tuesday night they went out to dinner somewhere and THe Guy talked about how both of us in a circular booth would sit right across from each other. Not Josh- he'd move into The Guy's lap practically, and did the night before. They had shrimp and were practically feeding each other in the restaurant and the waitress was totally flirting with them thinking they were a couple. When they got back to The Guy's place Josh admitted he thinks he is finally accepting that he is bi. The Guy just said saying that you're bi usually is the first step to coming out. Josh talked about not being horny enough, wanting testosterone injections, and The Guy just said that part of it may be him feeling sexually confused- not that he needs testosterone. They've been texting each other wake-up greetings saying good morning etc. The Guy talked about how he wouldn't shut up because he was on cloud 9. He asked if that was weird having him talk about all of this. I assured him it wasn't because he is happy, which is a good thing, and I really like Josh.
The GUy talks about how he has to go to Fed Ex to pick up a package that he missed being delivered. We kill about an hour in between by reading MacRumors and looking at Windows 7. We look and try to figure out the new features Windows 7 will have. The Guy checks his mail and sees his "NO ON 8" signs have arrived. He puts one on his porch, one in his window, and then the bumpersticker on the bumper of his car. He reasons that his car is not a big deal. I am opposed to that idea though, because of the paint damage. I put mine in the back window... hmm... wonder what mom will say when she sees that. The Guy tells me that he hasn't received any RSVPs for his Halloween Party. I said I did. He goes online and finds it was Louis, Josh and Jackie, as well as myself. It is now a costume party because Jackie says you have to dress up on Halloween. The Guy felt pressure because Jackie wanted to go to WEHO and The Guy's house wouldn't hail in comparison to that. Again, Josh's gay side came out and he said "I don't care about Jackie, I want to be with you."
On the way to Fed Ex The Guy says Ben is texting him this time, and last night he did so drunk. I told The Guy to forget about Ben. Everyone says to- including Josh he informed me. Ben treats The Guy badly. I again said he is happy around Josh. I told him about my dad and I, as well as the whole money issue the other night. He said he felt so bad about not coming to give me his gas card after the incident, especially after finding the card I gave him Monday morning. I told him basically my ATM is still drained and will be until I'm paid in mid-November, but my mom just said to charge everything to my credit card and she'll pay the bill for me because it was all because of errands I ran for the family my account is drained. The Guy said that's cool.
We wait maybe 20 minutes at Fed Ex, then drive over to UPS to see if they're open because The Guy missed 2 packages from them. They closed at 7. We stopped and got gas at an Arco and I showed off my expertise getting around Ontario because I knew where the gas stations were and how to use surface streets. Back in the car again we talk about The Guy helping Jeff out with gas on Sunday for getting pizza, Josh on Tuesday night, then himself on Wednesday night. He only put $25 in his tank to not make it look like he is driving alot and have his parents cut him off the gas card for driving too much for "personal" stuff. He said that wouldn't have stopped him from helping me the other day. He said I'm the most financially responsible person he has ever known and he totally understands that I just paid off my car so that drained my savings; helping my dad out has required me to drain my checking account, then having to charge everything makes it hard. I told him how bad I felt by doing that and he just again said "not a big deal, he'd have no problem doing that for me." He told me how at my age he was writing checks constantly and often had $8 or $9 in his checking account. His parents asked him how he had so little and so many overdrafts. He also had $20,000 in credit card debt and his parents were screaming at him asking him how he could have so much debt and be so irresponsible. I told him that's not a problem and how I actually just got a HUGE, unwanted credit line. The amount floored him. I have a larger credit line than he does on 1 credit card than he does on nearly a dozen and he has tried to get a bump in his credit limit.
The Guy tells me about the gym, then he asks how things are going for me. I said I haven't really been going. He asked when I last went and admitted the day before. I said I went the day before, but that I haven't been going as much as before. He said he was just curious and was wondering what my goals were- whether it be to gain muscle or maintain what I currently have. He said he thinks I'd look REALLY good if I added about 15 pounds of muscle and told me what to do. Then he said that he thinks it'd look really good on me, I'd be really happy. I told him I didn't know and explained my apprehensions. I have a pretty petite looking frame and I don't want to look REALLY bulky. The guys I see at the gym who are really big do not appeal to me. I even used Josh as an example- I don't want to look like that. Josh doesn't have the body type I do- I'm more petite, so I used him to point that out. The Guy had a hard time understanding what I wanted to say, but then I lifted up my shirt, and just said "look, most guys are a lot wider who have the muscle. I'm 6'2'', 150lbs, and have a 29'' waist, so a lot of extra muscle, and being bulked up like that wouldn't look too good." The Guy says "oooooooh you're an ectomorph." We go back into the computer room and he looks up what an ectomorph is. He says he is a mesomorph, and that I'm an ectomorph. Being an ectomorph is my biggest curse, yet blessing.
The ECTOMORPH
Definitive "Hard Gainer"
Delicate Built Body
Flat Chest
Fragile
Lean
Lightly Muscled
Small Shouldered
Takes Longer to Gain Muscle
Thin
The Guy understood what I was saying. Brad Pitt is a good example of an ectomorph. He said he thinks it'd be very difficult for me because I eat nowhere near 3,000 calories per day, that I eat reasonably, yet healthily. A couple times The Guy asked if he was overstepping boundaries by asking. I assured him that he wasn't because I was curious, and truthfully, I had been debating what I want to do- adding 15 pounds or so of muscle would give me more defined calves, more defined pecs, and things like that. The Guy said he felt bad bringing it up, and I assured him it was not a big deal.
After, we watched the Obama 30 minute informercial, or I mean commercial. Whatever it was, The Guy proclaimed it was better than anything ever sold on Guthy Renker.
The Guy wants to get yogurt, so we go to CVS. He wants milk, I talk about still not sleeping, so The Guy says I need some DHEA or something. Some pill that he has tried that helps you get back to a normal sleep pattern. He insists on buying it for me because I had to listen to him be harsh toward me about weight. I said it wasn't a big deal. At the checkout, the cashier joked about being able to hack into The Guy's iPhone and his hate. The Guy was a little worried and wants to see him do that. HAHA. We go to get our yogurt and The Guy buys an extra one for Josh in case he comes over. We get the yogurt, then go back to his place. We have an interesting conversation, but it was a good one- what The Guy sees in Josh. Everything is just so natural. The conversation, the caring, the creative side both of them have. Josh doesn't have natural smarts, is not book smart, has failed his personal trainers test 3 times because he has a hard time talking to large groups of people, and doesn't do written tests well, but he is giving 125% to do it. The Guy said in me he sees natural smarts, book smarts, and street smarts. I have all 3 and we have great conversations about anything and everything and I can almost always contribute to what he has to say. Josh though, is different, yet his determination and things appeal to him and how hard it is for him to respond to Josh when he says he knows he is not naturally smart or book smart. It is about 9:30 and we call it a night.
My question guys is this- look at my body and give me your opinions. Should I gain 15 pounds or so more of muscle, or just work on my body and keep it the way it is? Take a look at the pics...
Better calves (I do have calves- just not that visible)? Filling out a shirt like this better? Larger shoulders? I dunno... what do you guys think? Anyone have any ideas?
Here's a guy from some forum I found online when looking- his before and after photos. Tried to upload the PHOTOS, BUT IT WOULDN'T WORK- LOOK HERE AND TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK... I look a lot like the guy in the below photo when I wear shirts- I don't fill them out well I don't think... but I'm apprehensive. I dunno... opinions guys... I don't care if you post anonymously or with your name. I'm not going to hold it against you. I just want some ideas...
If the images of this guy, a fellow ectomorph don't work, then try THIS link below... this is about the best example I've seen... http://img186.imageshack.us/img186/4523/comparisonpicms5.jpg
I take off about 4:40 as he is leaving the office and we have a nice talk. He is asking me about how my day went. I told him about my Spanish class and the midterm we just took. It is on literary terms like "synecdoche, anaphora, alliteration, onomatopoeia, personification, sinestesia (can't think of the English equivalent, and apostrophe." There were a bunch more, but you get the picture. AP English 11th grade terms. That's where I knew the terms from, and had I not, would have struggled like so many seemed to be in the class. He asked the format, how it was set up, then asked me the definition of each. He said it sounds like I felt confident. I gave him the sentences I remember from Spanish and what I said they were and he verified my answer. Then he told me how he can see that I'm really happy with my Spanish lit teacher I have.
I got to his place at 5:25 after many texts about what we were doing and waiting in traffic. He is standing at the door, greets me, and then starts pouring food for me. He asks if I eat salad because he had ordered salad. You probably remember a few weeks back how we had the argument over what vegetables were, how I don't eat those, and how I don't eat salad. Well, it is not the case. The Guy even got on me the other night in front of Josh for not eating salad. I had to prove him wrong then, because the night before I had a chicken topped salad from Applebees. Anyways, we pile the salmon, potatoes, and salad on our plates, then go in the living room. The salad is wonderful.
During dinner he tells me about Josh. I had been wanting to hear since Monday. After I left Sunday night they watched the "Hulk" and a really scary movie that The Guy didn't want to and joked that he'd end up in Josh's lap. They talked during the movie. Josh kept moving closer to The Guy. Josh was talking about how he truly feels confused. He said he is unhappy with Jackie, his girlfriend, for not being supportive of him in all of his endeavors. He said he doesn't know if it is just him being around The Guy and getting a lot more attention than around Jackie that makes him like The Guy. The Guy repositioned himself and Josh ended up laying on his chest. Josh talked so openly about how the night before he had a dream about kissing a guy. The Guy saw this was the perfect opportunity to swoop in and give Josh a kiss on the lips. He gave 3 short pecks. They continued watching the movie, then when Josh left texted The Guy saying he had an incredible time. Tuesday night they went out to dinner somewhere and THe Guy talked about how both of us in a circular booth would sit right across from each other. Not Josh- he'd move into The Guy's lap practically, and did the night before. They had shrimp and were practically feeding each other in the restaurant and the waitress was totally flirting with them thinking they were a couple. When they got back to The Guy's place Josh admitted he thinks he is finally accepting that he is bi. The Guy just said saying that you're bi usually is the first step to coming out. Josh talked about not being horny enough, wanting testosterone injections, and The Guy just said that part of it may be him feeling sexually confused- not that he needs testosterone. They've been texting each other wake-up greetings saying good morning etc. The Guy talked about how he wouldn't shut up because he was on cloud 9. He asked if that was weird having him talk about all of this. I assured him it wasn't because he is happy, which is a good thing, and I really like Josh.
The GUy talks about how he has to go to Fed Ex to pick up a package that he missed being delivered. We kill about an hour in between by reading MacRumors and looking at Windows 7. We look and try to figure out the new features Windows 7 will have. The Guy checks his mail and sees his "NO ON 8" signs have arrived. He puts one on his porch, one in his window, and then the bumpersticker on the bumper of his car. He reasons that his car is not a big deal. I am opposed to that idea though, because of the paint damage. I put mine in the back window... hmm... wonder what mom will say when she sees that. The Guy tells me that he hasn't received any RSVPs for his Halloween Party. I said I did. He goes online and finds it was Louis, Josh and Jackie, as well as myself. It is now a costume party because Jackie says you have to dress up on Halloween. The Guy felt pressure because Jackie wanted to go to WEHO and The Guy's house wouldn't hail in comparison to that. Again, Josh's gay side came out and he said "I don't care about Jackie, I want to be with you."
On the way to Fed Ex The Guy says Ben is texting him this time, and last night he did so drunk. I told The Guy to forget about Ben. Everyone says to- including Josh he informed me. Ben treats The Guy badly. I again said he is happy around Josh. I told him about my dad and I, as well as the whole money issue the other night. He said he felt so bad about not coming to give me his gas card after the incident, especially after finding the card I gave him Monday morning. I told him basically my ATM is still drained and will be until I'm paid in mid-November, but my mom just said to charge everything to my credit card and she'll pay the bill for me because it was all because of errands I ran for the family my account is drained. The Guy said that's cool.
We wait maybe 20 minutes at Fed Ex, then drive over to UPS to see if they're open because The Guy missed 2 packages from them. They closed at 7. We stopped and got gas at an Arco and I showed off my expertise getting around Ontario because I knew where the gas stations were and how to use surface streets. Back in the car again we talk about The Guy helping Jeff out with gas on Sunday for getting pizza, Josh on Tuesday night, then himself on Wednesday night. He only put $25 in his tank to not make it look like he is driving alot and have his parents cut him off the gas card for driving too much for "personal" stuff. He said that wouldn't have stopped him from helping me the other day. He said I'm the most financially responsible person he has ever known and he totally understands that I just paid off my car so that drained my savings; helping my dad out has required me to drain my checking account, then having to charge everything makes it hard. I told him how bad I felt by doing that and he just again said "not a big deal, he'd have no problem doing that for me." He told me how at my age he was writing checks constantly and often had $8 or $9 in his checking account. His parents asked him how he had so little and so many overdrafts. He also had $20,000 in credit card debt and his parents were screaming at him asking him how he could have so much debt and be so irresponsible. I told him that's not a problem and how I actually just got a HUGE, unwanted credit line. The amount floored him. I have a larger credit line than he does on 1 credit card than he does on nearly a dozen and he has tried to get a bump in his credit limit.
The Guy tells me about the gym, then he asks how things are going for me. I said I haven't really been going. He asked when I last went and admitted the day before. I said I went the day before, but that I haven't been going as much as before. He said he was just curious and was wondering what my goals were- whether it be to gain muscle or maintain what I currently have. He said he thinks I'd look REALLY good if I added about 15 pounds of muscle and told me what to do. Then he said that he thinks it'd look really good on me, I'd be really happy. I told him I didn't know and explained my apprehensions. I have a pretty petite looking frame and I don't want to look REALLY bulky. The guys I see at the gym who are really big do not appeal to me. I even used Josh as an example- I don't want to look like that. Josh doesn't have the body type I do- I'm more petite, so I used him to point that out. The Guy had a hard time understanding what I wanted to say, but then I lifted up my shirt, and just said "look, most guys are a lot wider who have the muscle. I'm 6'2'', 150lbs, and have a 29'' waist, so a lot of extra muscle, and being bulked up like that wouldn't look too good." The Guy says "oooooooh you're an ectomorph." We go back into the computer room and he looks up what an ectomorph is. He says he is a mesomorph, and that I'm an ectomorph. Being an ectomorph is my biggest curse, yet blessing.
The ECTOMORPH
Definitive "Hard Gainer"
Delicate Built Body
Flat Chest
Fragile
Lean
Lightly Muscled
Small Shouldered
Takes Longer to Gain Muscle
Thin
The Guy understood what I was saying. Brad Pitt is a good example of an ectomorph. He said he thinks it'd be very difficult for me because I eat nowhere near 3,000 calories per day, that I eat reasonably, yet healthily. A couple times The Guy asked if he was overstepping boundaries by asking. I assured him that he wasn't because I was curious, and truthfully, I had been debating what I want to do- adding 15 pounds or so of muscle would give me more defined calves, more defined pecs, and things like that. The Guy said he felt bad bringing it up, and I assured him it was not a big deal.
After, we watched the Obama 30 minute informercial, or I mean commercial. Whatever it was, The Guy proclaimed it was better than anything ever sold on Guthy Renker.
The Guy wants to get yogurt, so we go to CVS. He wants milk, I talk about still not sleeping, so The Guy says I need some DHEA or something. Some pill that he has tried that helps you get back to a normal sleep pattern. He insists on buying it for me because I had to listen to him be harsh toward me about weight. I said it wasn't a big deal. At the checkout, the cashier joked about being able to hack into The Guy's iPhone and his hate. The Guy was a little worried and wants to see him do that. HAHA. We go to get our yogurt and The Guy buys an extra one for Josh in case he comes over. We get the yogurt, then go back to his place. We have an interesting conversation, but it was a good one- what The Guy sees in Josh. Everything is just so natural. The conversation, the caring, the creative side both of them have. Josh doesn't have natural smarts, is not book smart, has failed his personal trainers test 3 times because he has a hard time talking to large groups of people, and doesn't do written tests well, but he is giving 125% to do it. The Guy said in me he sees natural smarts, book smarts, and street smarts. I have all 3 and we have great conversations about anything and everything and I can almost always contribute to what he has to say. Josh though, is different, yet his determination and things appeal to him and how hard it is for him to respond to Josh when he says he knows he is not naturally smart or book smart. It is about 9:30 and we call it a night.
My question guys is this- look at my body and give me your opinions. Should I gain 15 pounds or so more of muscle, or just work on my body and keep it the way it is? Take a look at the pics...
Better calves (I do have calves- just not that visible)? Filling out a shirt like this better? Larger shoulders? I dunno... what do you guys think? Anyone have any ideas?
Here's a guy from some forum I found online when looking- his before and after photos. Tried to upload the PHOTOS, BUT IT WOULDN'T WORK- LOOK HERE AND TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK... I look a lot like the guy in the below photo when I wear shirts- I don't fill them out well I don't think... but I'm apprehensive. I dunno... opinions guys... I don't care if you post anonymously or with your name. I'm not going to hold it against you. I just want some ideas...
If the images of this guy, a fellow ectomorph don't work, then try THIS link below... this is about the best example I've seen... http://img186.imageshack.us/img186/4523/comparisonpicms5.jpg
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Needed to get away for a few hours
I called The Guy about 11:15 to see how he was since I hadn't heard from him since Sunday when he wasn't feeling well. He seemed fine and we talked for a few minutes until he got a call from his mom and hung up. I texted him asking how he was and told him about my life the past couple days. I basically asked him if I could come over because I didn't want to be home because of some stuff that happened. He said sure, but he wanted some alone time this evening.
I made an attempt to go his place, got halfway there, then realized I didn't have my wallet and turned around to go back and get it. It seemed like I passed every cop on the way. I drove extra cautious, grabbed my wallet, and turned back around.
I get to The Guy's place and he is in the office playing that game from the other day- Neverending Night 2 or something. He was out in the village running around, but got fed up after about 30 minutes where he thought he was completing quests, but wasn't.
The Guy asks if I'm hungry and I said no. He made a chicken burger for himself. He made 2 patties, put cilantro dressing, cheese, about 3/4 a cup of spinach, on a foccacia roll. He ate and we watched "Law and Order." Afterward, he entered it in his food diary on the internet. He then reflected and said he would have been fine eating just 1 patty. He could only eat 600 more calories for the rest of the day. We talked and I told him how proud of him I am for going out of his way to be healthy. He added all of that spinach, the smoothies help get fruit in his diet, and so he is doing really well. I am not lying- he is doing a great job and he is eating very healthily. I congratulated him. We cruised around on the internet looking for stuff to buy. He pondered buying a computer for his friend Dan, whom he plays all of these MMORPG games with. His computer broke- The Guy bought him this computer and was thinking of buying him another one, but he decided $1,399 for a good computer was too much to spend.
We go in the kitchen and The Guy makes an acai smoothie. It isn't as sweet as usual, but still has that tart taste.
We go back in the office looking for things to buy and then start talking about cars. I'm going to be buying a car possibly in the next 4-5 days. I've been driving the car my parents gave me- no complaints there- it gets 20-27mpg and I can beat anyone who tries to race me. I would just like something newer, something not 10 years old, something that is in a little better condition- my car is in great condition because I've kept it in that, but there are some little problems that go with age like the leather on the driver's seat is going.
We looked at the Nissan Altima coupe and priced them out. The Guy was trying to come up with the most expensive model because we know how he shops and he goes for the car with the most features. His Altima coupe came out at $33,000. He asked why I didn't buy that. I showed him what I am looking that and what I'm considering. He tried to show me cars in a higher price bracket and then we discussed why I'm getting what I am. He asked if the car I'm looking at has a navigation system. Sadly it doesn't- it does have everything else I think. He said what I'm getting is a good choice for what I'm getting and the price I'm paying.
We go into the living room and watch "Law and Order." We watch 2 episodes, then about 6:30 The Guy says he needs to go to the gym for 30 minutes of cardio. I congratulate him on his decision. He says he's going for 30 minutes, then I said that's good, he said no more, no less. I said that's 18,000 seconds or something and he could do it. He laughed and said it was too mathematical. Then we hug and I thank him for letting me come over.
*** So I am actually encouraged to eat healthier since The Guy is. I need to incorporate more fruits and vegetables into my diet. I eat pretty healthily, I think, but I want to use this food website The Guy is using to see what they say. I'm going to keep track of all my meals for a week. My most unhealthy meal is usually breakfast because it is always a fight with my stomach- I'll eat whatever I can stomach. My stomach is just so sour in the morning sometimes.
*** I have a new fitness goal to do at least 100 sit ups/crunches a day for everyday I don't go to the gym and work on my abs. So here's what I look like now, we'll see what I look like at the end of summer.
I made an attempt to go his place, got halfway there, then realized I didn't have my wallet and turned around to go back and get it. It seemed like I passed every cop on the way. I drove extra cautious, grabbed my wallet, and turned back around.
I get to The Guy's place and he is in the office playing that game from the other day- Neverending Night 2 or something. He was out in the village running around, but got fed up after about 30 minutes where he thought he was completing quests, but wasn't.
The Guy asks if I'm hungry and I said no. He made a chicken burger for himself. He made 2 patties, put cilantro dressing, cheese, about 3/4 a cup of spinach, on a foccacia roll. He ate and we watched "Law and Order." Afterward, he entered it in his food diary on the internet. He then reflected and said he would have been fine eating just 1 patty. He could only eat 600 more calories for the rest of the day. We talked and I told him how proud of him I am for going out of his way to be healthy. He added all of that spinach, the smoothies help get fruit in his diet, and so he is doing really well. I am not lying- he is doing a great job and he is eating very healthily. I congratulated him. We cruised around on the internet looking for stuff to buy. He pondered buying a computer for his friend Dan, whom he plays all of these MMORPG games with. His computer broke- The Guy bought him this computer and was thinking of buying him another one, but he decided $1,399 for a good computer was too much to spend.
We go in the kitchen and The Guy makes an acai smoothie. It isn't as sweet as usual, but still has that tart taste.
We go back in the office looking for things to buy and then start talking about cars. I'm going to be buying a car possibly in the next 4-5 days. I've been driving the car my parents gave me- no complaints there- it gets 20-27mpg and I can beat anyone who tries to race me. I would just like something newer, something not 10 years old, something that is in a little better condition- my car is in great condition because I've kept it in that, but there are some little problems that go with age like the leather on the driver's seat is going.
We looked at the Nissan Altima coupe and priced them out. The Guy was trying to come up with the most expensive model because we know how he shops and he goes for the car with the most features. His Altima coupe came out at $33,000. He asked why I didn't buy that. I showed him what I am looking that and what I'm considering. He tried to show me cars in a higher price bracket and then we discussed why I'm getting what I am. He asked if the car I'm looking at has a navigation system. Sadly it doesn't- it does have everything else I think. He said what I'm getting is a good choice for what I'm getting and the price I'm paying.
We go into the living room and watch "Law and Order." We watch 2 episodes, then about 6:30 The Guy says he needs to go to the gym for 30 minutes of cardio. I congratulate him on his decision. He says he's going for 30 minutes, then I said that's good, he said no more, no less. I said that's 18,000 seconds or something and he could do it. He laughed and said it was too mathematical. Then we hug and I thank him for letting me come over.
*** So I am actually encouraged to eat healthier since The Guy is. I need to incorporate more fruits and vegetables into my diet. I eat pretty healthily, I think, but I want to use this food website The Guy is using to see what they say. I'm going to keep track of all my meals for a week. My most unhealthy meal is usually breakfast because it is always a fight with my stomach- I'll eat whatever I can stomach. My stomach is just so sour in the morning sometimes.
*** I have a new fitness goal to do at least 100 sit ups/crunches a day for everyday I don't go to the gym and work on my abs. So here's what I look like now, we'll see what I look like at the end of summer.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
My gym mix
Zoe, my iPod broke a few months back. I never used my iPod at the gym or anything like that, so it was no big deal, but then I did some investigating and discovered my Blackberry has a memory card (which I knew), but I didn't really think of putting music on it. Techie Mike played around and added these 20 hot songs to his Blackberry in playing around and then decided to tote his Blackberry named Kenny with him to the gym.
Touch My Body- Mariah Carey
9 in the Afternoon- Panic! At the Disco
Back When I Knew It All- Montgomery Gentry
Fill Me In- Craig David
Because of You- Kelly Clarkson
Bringing Out the Elvis- Faith Hill
Do You Know The Way To San Jose?- Dionne Warwick
Angel of Mine- Monica
Dedicated to the One I Love- The Mamas & The Papas
One Fine Day- The Chiffons
Tainted Love- Soft Cell
Night Drive- Jimmy Eat World
Genio Atrapado- Christina Aguleria
Home- Michael Buble
I Am An Illusion- Rob Thomas
Big Man In Town- Frankie Valli & The 4 Seasons
Africa- Toto
Manic Monday- The Bangles
Won't Go Home Without You- Maroon 5
Summer Girls- LFO
Now, at the gym, I fit right in with 2 earbuds in my ears like everyone else. I feel normal.
I thought I'd also point out that I tend to name things I own. My car is Bob. My phone is Kenny. My iPod was Zoe. My car keys are named Llaves. My backpack is named PackPack. I have yet to name my MacBook, but I'm thinking José.
Touch My Body- Mariah Carey
9 in the Afternoon- Panic! At the Disco
Back When I Knew It All- Montgomery Gentry
Fill Me In- Craig David
Because of You- Kelly Clarkson
Bringing Out the Elvis- Faith Hill
Do You Know The Way To San Jose?- Dionne Warwick
Angel of Mine- Monica
Dedicated to the One I Love- The Mamas & The Papas
One Fine Day- The Chiffons
Tainted Love- Soft Cell
Night Drive- Jimmy Eat World
Genio Atrapado- Christina Aguleria
Home- Michael Buble
I Am An Illusion- Rob Thomas
Big Man In Town- Frankie Valli & The 4 Seasons
Africa- Toto
Manic Monday- The Bangles
Won't Go Home Without You- Maroon 5
Summer Girls- LFO
Now, at the gym, I fit right in with 2 earbuds in my ears like everyone else. I feel normal.
I thought I'd also point out that I tend to name things I own. My car is Bob. My phone is Kenny. My iPod was Zoe. My car keys are named Llaves. My backpack is named PackPack. I have yet to name my MacBook, but I'm thinking José.
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Odds and ends
School has started- I could have missed it. I didn't realize until about 10:30 last Wednesday night that school started on Thursday. My coworker B called me to ask me what time my first class was. The panic sort of sat in because I didn't have a schedule in place. I had 2 classes picked, but needed 2 more. I was waitlisted, but was able to register for both today, so things should be good on that front. My film teacher seems very disorganized and I'm not sure that I'm going to get a lot from the class, but I think I scored some big points with him by talking to him after class today just about random stuff like film classes I've taken and school in general. It was kind of by accident, but oh well.
Have a funny story from dinner last night. My parents took me out to a Spanish restaurant to celebrate my birthday. Enjoyed it a lot. Never had Spanish food (Mexican, yes, but not Spanish) prior to this. I had a tapa, then my mom, dad, and I sampled each other's paella, Castillian medallions, and other dishes. For dessert I had basically an apple tart. My sister read on the menu what was in it and threw a fit. It was cooked in a rum and brandy sauce. My sister was protesting because it is the night before I turned 21 and I'm already "drinking" something. She told my parents how upset she was and went off on her tangent about how Carrie Nation is her hero. My mom said that the alcohol is burnt off in the cooking and adds flavor. My sister didn't buy it. Then as we were leaving the restaurant she threw another fit that I was being allowed to drive after I just had alcohol. She threw a tantrum in the parking lot. SHE IS 18!!! My mom put it into perspective though by asking my sister how many times has she heard on the news how many times has she heard of someone causing an accident who became drunk by eating dessert? My sister was speechless and just said she didn't feel safe with me driving home. On the way home she had to point out every little possible fault in my driving. I just said at least I have my license and I was able to stay in the lines on the road, even while being "drunk." It shut her up- she still doesn't have her license and my mom keeps getting after her for not being able to stay in the lines while driving.
Speaking of my birthday, it is my 21st and I am kind of making it a weeklong celebration. My mom took off for Nor Cal this morning to deal with family, so we celebrated my birthday at the Spanish restaurant last night. Before my mom took off to the airport today, she took my sister and I to the casino. It came up last night that we should do something different because I was 21. The casino was an idea. Nobody in my family gambles really. My mom's limit is $10. My mom played 1 penny machine the whole time and won $53.80 and she only spent $10. I lost $11, but managed to win $9. I only spent $20. My sister spent $10, but lost $5.00.
Tomorrow my cousin and I are going out to lunch to celebrate my birthday, then Gonzo and I are going out to dinner after she gets off work. The Guy and I are going to go out one night, or we may stay at his house and we're going to celebrate with drinks.
One of the more built trainers at my gym wears thong underwear. He is a tall black guy with dredlocks, not bad looking. How do I know? As I was leaving the other day he was standing at the front desk talking to Gonzo reaching up as high as he could in the air and his shirt went up, his pants went down, and there was his black thong.
Andrew, a kid I went to high school with, who happens to be gay and came out during his junior year goes to the gym I do. Gonzo was working the other day and he came by to say hi to Gonzo, like I do before I leave. He walked up to her about a minute before me. After he left Gonzo began asking me what I thought of him, if he was cute, and if she could hook me up with him. I said no, I don't want to come out to him, we have completely different friends, and haven't talked since sophomore year of high school. She said she is going to see what she can work out. He is kind of cute, but it is not like I'm looking for a guy. I told Gonzo I hope she was only kidding.
Have a funny story from dinner last night. My parents took me out to a Spanish restaurant to celebrate my birthday. Enjoyed it a lot. Never had Spanish food (Mexican, yes, but not Spanish) prior to this. I had a tapa, then my mom, dad, and I sampled each other's paella, Castillian medallions, and other dishes. For dessert I had basically an apple tart. My sister read on the menu what was in it and threw a fit. It was cooked in a rum and brandy sauce. My sister was protesting because it is the night before I turned 21 and I'm already "drinking" something. She told my parents how upset she was and went off on her tangent about how Carrie Nation is her hero. My mom said that the alcohol is burnt off in the cooking and adds flavor. My sister didn't buy it. Then as we were leaving the restaurant she threw another fit that I was being allowed to drive after I just had alcohol. She threw a tantrum in the parking lot. SHE IS 18!!! My mom put it into perspective though by asking my sister how many times has she heard on the news how many times has she heard of someone causing an accident who became drunk by eating dessert? My sister was speechless and just said she didn't feel safe with me driving home. On the way home she had to point out every little possible fault in my driving. I just said at least I have my license and I was able to stay in the lines on the road, even while being "drunk." It shut her up- she still doesn't have her license and my mom keeps getting after her for not being able to stay in the lines while driving.
Speaking of my birthday, it is my 21st and I am kind of making it a weeklong celebration. My mom took off for Nor Cal this morning to deal with family, so we celebrated my birthday at the Spanish restaurant last night. Before my mom took off to the airport today, she took my sister and I to the casino. It came up last night that we should do something different because I was 21. The casino was an idea. Nobody in my family gambles really. My mom's limit is $10. My mom played 1 penny machine the whole time and won $53.80 and she only spent $10. I lost $11, but managed to win $9. I only spent $20. My sister spent $10, but lost $5.00.
Tomorrow my cousin and I are going out to lunch to celebrate my birthday, then Gonzo and I are going out to dinner after she gets off work. The Guy and I are going to go out one night, or we may stay at his house and we're going to celebrate with drinks.
One of the more built trainers at my gym wears thong underwear. He is a tall black guy with dredlocks, not bad looking. How do I know? As I was leaving the other day he was standing at the front desk talking to Gonzo reaching up as high as he could in the air and his shirt went up, his pants went down, and there was his black thong.
Andrew, a kid I went to high school with, who happens to be gay and came out during his junior year goes to the gym I do. Gonzo was working the other day and he came by to say hi to Gonzo, like I do before I leave. He walked up to her about a minute before me. After he left Gonzo began asking me what I thought of him, if he was cute, and if she could hook me up with him. I said no, I don't want to come out to him, we have completely different friends, and haven't talked since sophomore year of high school. She said she is going to see what she can work out. He is kind of cute, but it is not like I'm looking for a guy. I told Gonzo I hope she was only kidding.
Monday, December 31, 2007
2007 Wrap-up - WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN 2008
2007 has been an incredible year for me. I was hoping it would be in comparison with 2006. Without going into too many details 2006 was full of family drama that I found myself in the middle of because I was able to handle it since I'm close to home all day. 2006 was full of disappointments with my grandma and aunt in Nor Cal. I can honestly say 2006 was one of the worst years I've had and 2007 more than made up for it.
2007 found me branching out in many ways- being more social, wanting to meet more people, exploring my interests in guys, and trying harder academically.
I'm very proud of my GPA. My overall GPA went up by .25 and I took some very challenging classes, especially at the beginning of 2007. I found myself channeling and focusing in on school to compensate for other areas of my life that weren't going so well. The work paid off and things did improve in other areas. This past quarter I had a near perfect GPA. I did receive straight A's, but at my wonderful (note the sarcasm) institution of higher learning, you get 3.67 points for an A-, instead of 4. I did manage to get a 3.89, so I won't complain.
I continue to be able to juggle home life- spending time with the family, helping out around the house, and dealing with all of the problems with my aunt and grandma with working part time (up to 18 hours a week), going to school full time, and interning 10 hours a week. My internship is now over and it was an enjoyable experience. I did get an awesome letter of recommendation out of it. I thought that I would be constantly busy, constantly on the go, no time for The Guy, or friends this past quarter, but that was far from the case. I was always busy, but I was able to make time for The Guy and friends. The following quarters will prove to be less intense, but I'm proud to say I was able to juggle all of this.
I found things going better family-wise in 2007. I continued to get along with my parents for the mostpart, despite the fact I've hidden so much from them in this past year. They continue to trust me and support me (both emotionally and financially), so that is a good thing. I continue to have their respect. We have our disagreements, but overall things are going well with them. I do worry that my parents will found out about me, which I haven't had to worry about in the past.
Socially, I have branched out and tried to meet more people at my college. I did accomplish that, but I still haven't met friends that I'd want to hang out with outside of school. I have developed some really great friendships this year, like with The Guy. I have also became closer to friends like Gonzo, who I felt comfortable enough to come out to. Since coming out we're much closer and I don't feel as bound lying to a good friend. I began 2007 very depressed and lonely and was determined to make that change.
Work was a lot of fun this year. I love working at the high school, working with the kids, working with the freshmen classes especially (crazy, I know). I have a fan club in the junior class that every time I walk in the room they yell out "MIKE!" I certainly feel loved. I am a lead tutor along with Gonzo, so we have seniority and so that has its perks. I have a new boss and I can do no wrong in her eyes. I have become closer to coworkers D and N. I'm not sure how much longer I will be around there- I may work just 1 day a week at the high school. I did not get a pay raise this year, despite the fact I have been at the high school for 3 years. The damn school board would not approve a $2.50-$5.00 per hour raise depending on how much college you have completed and seniority, which has caused me to look at other options. I have been hired to substitute, which pays almost triple what I make in a day at the high school. It will mean a longer commute to work, but I am ready for a change, the adventure, and the challenge.
I continue to have a don't mess with me attitude when it comes to things at work, dealing with my aunt, and stuff like that. It has made me stronger.
I did a lot of things I never expected I would do in 2007 that constitute me branching out. I posted ads on craigslist and met up with a kid from my college and met The Guy through craigslist. This took a lot of guts on my part, but I'm proud to say I did it. I feel kind of dirty saying that I did resort to craigslist, but oh well. I really was lonely and I wanted to explore men. I wasn't going to let myself slip that low and hook up with any guy, because that's not how I am. I was planning on playing it safe and I did. I lost my virginity- never thought that would happen so soon. I really don't regret that, which I find a little surprising, but I credit that to I met someone who I was comfortable with.
I got in shape at the gym- and am proud of the results. I never thought that going to the gym would give me a lot more confidence. I actually lost 3 inches off of my waist. I was not fat to begin with, in fact far from that- now I'm simply more toned.
I met a bunch of awesome bloggers and readers who are in the same position as I am, which has been awesome and a relief to know I wasn't the only guy going through this, which I think just encouraged me even further to come out. I've enjoyed the support, being able to bounce ideas off you guys, talk about random things, and overall just getting to know each other. It has been fun and I enjoy chatting with you guys. I know that it was a big help to be able to have K and Kelly to talk to/text at various times when I tried to come out to Gonzo but didn't have the courage and needed the extra push and encouragement. Thanks guys! It was awesome being able to meet Dan during my stopover in OKC this summer . It was awesome to meet him face to face and put a face to the blog, but also talk to a guy from the same sort of upbringing, etc. It was fun meeting Kelly at Chevys and Yardhouse for dinner. I enjoyed getting to also meet JR and Hamilton in November when all of us LA bloggers took on the OC Performing Arts Center and saw "Jersey Boys."
Here's to another great year in 2008 and making more strides to be more social and come out!
HAPPY 2008 GUYS!!!
2007 found me branching out in many ways- being more social, wanting to meet more people, exploring my interests in guys, and trying harder academically.
I'm very proud of my GPA. My overall GPA went up by .25 and I took some very challenging classes, especially at the beginning of 2007. I found myself channeling and focusing in on school to compensate for other areas of my life that weren't going so well. The work paid off and things did improve in other areas. This past quarter I had a near perfect GPA. I did receive straight A's, but at my wonderful (note the sarcasm) institution of higher learning, you get 3.67 points for an A-, instead of 4. I did manage to get a 3.89, so I won't complain.
I continue to be able to juggle home life- spending time with the family, helping out around the house, and dealing with all of the problems with my aunt and grandma with working part time (up to 18 hours a week), going to school full time, and interning 10 hours a week. My internship is now over and it was an enjoyable experience. I did get an awesome letter of recommendation out of it. I thought that I would be constantly busy, constantly on the go, no time for The Guy, or friends this past quarter, but that was far from the case. I was always busy, but I was able to make time for The Guy and friends. The following quarters will prove to be less intense, but I'm proud to say I was able to juggle all of this.
I found things going better family-wise in 2007. I continued to get along with my parents for the mostpart, despite the fact I've hidden so much from them in this past year. They continue to trust me and support me (both emotionally and financially), so that is a good thing. I continue to have their respect. We have our disagreements, but overall things are going well with them. I do worry that my parents will found out about me, which I haven't had to worry about in the past.
Socially, I have branched out and tried to meet more people at my college. I did accomplish that, but I still haven't met friends that I'd want to hang out with outside of school. I have developed some really great friendships this year, like with The Guy. I have also became closer to friends like Gonzo, who I felt comfortable enough to come out to. Since coming out we're much closer and I don't feel as bound lying to a good friend. I began 2007 very depressed and lonely and was determined to make that change.
Work was a lot of fun this year. I love working at the high school, working with the kids, working with the freshmen classes especially (crazy, I know). I have a fan club in the junior class that every time I walk in the room they yell out "MIKE!" I certainly feel loved. I am a lead tutor along with Gonzo, so we have seniority and so that has its perks. I have a new boss and I can do no wrong in her eyes. I have become closer to coworkers D and N. I'm not sure how much longer I will be around there- I may work just 1 day a week at the high school. I did not get a pay raise this year, despite the fact I have been at the high school for 3 years. The damn school board would not approve a $2.50-$5.00 per hour raise depending on how much college you have completed and seniority, which has caused me to look at other options. I have been hired to substitute, which pays almost triple what I make in a day at the high school. It will mean a longer commute to work, but I am ready for a change, the adventure, and the challenge.
I continue to have a don't mess with me attitude when it comes to things at work, dealing with my aunt, and stuff like that. It has made me stronger.
I did a lot of things I never expected I would do in 2007 that constitute me branching out. I posted ads on craigslist and met up with a kid from my college and met The Guy through craigslist. This took a lot of guts on my part, but I'm proud to say I did it. I feel kind of dirty saying that I did resort to craigslist, but oh well. I really was lonely and I wanted to explore men. I wasn't going to let myself slip that low and hook up with any guy, because that's not how I am. I was planning on playing it safe and I did. I lost my virginity- never thought that would happen so soon. I really don't regret that, which I find a little surprising, but I credit that to I met someone who I was comfortable with.
I got in shape at the gym- and am proud of the results. I never thought that going to the gym would give me a lot more confidence. I actually lost 3 inches off of my waist. I was not fat to begin with, in fact far from that- now I'm simply more toned.
I met a bunch of awesome bloggers and readers who are in the same position as I am, which has been awesome and a relief to know I wasn't the only guy going through this, which I think just encouraged me even further to come out. I've enjoyed the support, being able to bounce ideas off you guys, talk about random things, and overall just getting to know each other. It has been fun and I enjoy chatting with you guys. I know that it was a big help to be able to have K and Kelly to talk to/text at various times when I tried to come out to Gonzo but didn't have the courage and needed the extra push and encouragement. Thanks guys! It was awesome being able to meet Dan during my stopover in OKC this summer . It was awesome to meet him face to face and put a face to the blog, but also talk to a guy from the same sort of upbringing, etc. It was fun meeting Kelly at Chevys and Yardhouse for dinner. I enjoyed getting to also meet JR and Hamilton in November when all of us LA bloggers took on the OC Performing Arts Center and saw "Jersey Boys."
Here's to another great year in 2008 and making more strides to be more social and come out!
HAPPY 2008 GUYS!!!
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
I <3 work...
On Monday I helped train the coordinator on how to do a lot of the administrative stuff for our program. I was not looking forward to it because it was going to be a boring day, and yes, it was. The good parts were that I got 3 hours extra pay and that I got treated to lunch at Del Taco.
On Tuesday there was a kid I tutor who got an "A" on his math test. He failed math in 7th and 8th grade apparently, which made him a perfect candidate for our program cuz we can help him. Us tutors worked with him and 4 others who were taking the same math test. It was for Algebra 1 or something.
Anyways, yesterday his mom brought us tutors cookies to say thank you. They weren't homemade or anything, but it was the thought that counted. It really surprised me also and I thanked the lady. The woman goes to the gym I go to. She looks real arrogant and walks around with her nose a mile up in the air, her hair is cut real short almost like a guy. She looks like she could take any guy, or girl on and win. I had received several unfriendly stares from her at the gym in the past until she found out I was working with her son, then she would at least smile. It was just a nice affirmation that the woman really is nice, even if she doesn't look it, and it was nice to know that I helped the kid get an "A."
On Tuesday there was a kid I tutor who got an "A" on his math test. He failed math in 7th and 8th grade apparently, which made him a perfect candidate for our program cuz we can help him. Us tutors worked with him and 4 others who were taking the same math test. It was for Algebra 1 or something.
Anyways, yesterday his mom brought us tutors cookies to say thank you. They weren't homemade or anything, but it was the thought that counted. It really surprised me also and I thanked the lady. The woman goes to the gym I go to. She looks real arrogant and walks around with her nose a mile up in the air, her hair is cut real short almost like a guy. She looks like she could take any guy, or girl on and win. I had received several unfriendly stares from her at the gym in the past until she found out I was working with her son, then she would at least smile. It was just a nice affirmation that the woman really is nice, even if she doesn't look it, and it was nice to know that I helped the kid get an "A."
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