Reassurance

The Guy called me Tuesday or Wednesday night about 9p.m. out of the blue. He was on his way to work out. It really made my evening since it was so out of the blue. He asked what I was up to, if I wanted to hang out Friday, and at what time. He also told me how Josh is avoiding contact with him. We confirmed Friday at 3.

On my way over The Guy was texting me, asking what time I'd show up. He gave me recommendations to use streets without construction because they are faster. Well, it was too late for that, but I did look at the situation optimistically and was on the hunt for hot construction workers. Only found a blonde guy who was sort of heavy and had a faux hawk- other than that, nothing special.

When I get to his place he is doing some "accounting" for his mom and explaining how he spent all the money he did that month. She just received his credit card bill. Thanks to Quicken and Adobe Illustrator everything was accounted for. It was really fun to watch him use it- it looked soooo easy! He does this for probably an hour and some. We chat a little bit- mainly him making comments about how great this is, me about the software being so cool, and a little about random stuff like family. He also asks me to look out into the living room at this time. I look and see a new 65'' TV. He gave his old 60'' away and just got this one that day. It was sharp! It was much smaller than his other one in that it is a flatter screen and does not have all the speakers on it.

After this we are both hungry so he makes us some burger patties. The meat is really good. He also cooks up some broccoli and tosses it in a cilantro sauce. Both things were good. I am not a broccoli fan normally, but this was good. I told him about my sister and the bed ordeal where she wanted the old couch as her bed. Fun stuff like that.

After our 4p.m. lunch The Guy does some cleaning around the house. He does some vacuuming and dishes. He also worked on one of his many media servers for the house.

We decide to go to the gym together. He asks if I have workout clothes, to whcih I reply that i don't after looking in my trunk. He gives me a pair of his shorts and a t-shirt to wear. We get our workout off the internet and are off. It is 15 squats, 15 sit ups, 15 pull ups, 15 push ups, then increase each to 25, and 75 a piece. This was all supposed to be done in 30 minutes. We managed to get through all of the sit ups and push ups, but the pull ups were much harder. I ended up doing about 5 or 10 each time. We also do a 10 minute walk on the treadmill to warm up. The Guy jokes about how my treadmill is so noisy. It was. No sé la razon. We talk about me subbing for Linda and Linda being so naive (as in not knowing about STDs or AIDS). He was sweating badly and I was glistening by the time the workout was over. I told him about her trash cans at school and tissues/gum. It felt pretty intense- especially when I normally don't do the pull ups. We were exhausted by the end of the workout.

We went to the Farmers Market afterward for groceries. The Guy got fruits and a few vegetables. We went through the store singing as usual to The Four Seasons song "Dawn" and "Working in a Coal Mine." I love going through that store singing- they play such great music! The Guy and I both know our oldies. I love being so carefree, just going in, singing. Fun times.



Workin' in a coal mine
Goin' down down down
Workin' in a coal mine
Whop! about to slip down
Workin' in a coal mine
Goin' down down down
Workin' in a coal mine
Whop! about to slip down
Five o'clock in the mornin'
I'm all ready up and gone
Lord I am so tired
How long can this go on?

When we get back to his place there is something that stinks. It turns out it is the smell of burning rubber in his dishwasher from his dog bowls. Took a while to figure it out. He takes the dishes out and cuts up the filet mignon he bought into strips and cooks it up in the skillet. He also serves the bean salad from the Farmers Market he bought.

We start watching movies and I forget what we watched first, but it was followed by XMEN 1, 2, and 3. It was after 5a.m. before we finished watching the movies. I was surprised. I had no idea I'd be there all night. I wasn't complaining, but that was unexpected. It was fun, though. The Guy was constantly up cleaning, cutting his hair, having me even up the back, vacuuming, putting sheets on the bed, and making comments and stuff.

The Guy and I both agreed he makes the comments and I always deliver the followup- that's kind of how we work. And my job is to agree with him. I wish I could remember some of the comments made during the movie. I think at one point during the movie he said "everyone but mutants" and I'd follow up with "everyone but you. You sir!"

The Guy had been texting his friend Matt who is 20. Matt just got off work and came over about 4a.m. The Guy gave me a 20 minute warning. Matt was cute. He wasn't really toned, but totally doable. The Guy suggests we go to bed and I agree. I was so tired/didn't really care, and I did have an idea what The Guy had in mind. The Guy starts hugging Matt and pulling down his pants. I make him do mine and he laughs. We all 3 begin making out, then Matt sucks me, I suck Matt, and The Guy gets out the lube and condoms. The Guy puts one on and then puts some lube on my ass and begins to fuck me. It hurt at first. It had been a LONG time since I had been. Then he fucks Matt, Matt puts one on and fucks me, then we go back to sucking each other. More condoms, more rounds, then we take turns pretty much fucking and kissing each other. Matt was huge on kissing. I liked that. The Guy afterward said how well we got along and how hot it was. It was.

It is 4:45 when we're done and he gives Matt a hug and takes off. He locks the door because he assumed I was staying the night. I told him I'd like to since I'd been up since 5:45a.m. Friday morning. He said that was fine. We slept in the same bed together, which was weird, especially after previous conversations about why we weren't, but I guess it was over the Josh thing then and feeling like he was in a relationship. Oh well, we were good. We slept on the far sides of the bed and the dog in between. The Guy's new husky sleeps on the tile floor, which was surprising. He didn't make an attempt to even get on the bed. It would have been crowded.

We sleep until 8 when The Guy has to get up to go to work. We are woken up by The Guy's computer playing some Beyonce and JayZ singing some Deja Vu. It was such a catchy song. I'm not sure what JayZ was singing about, but it didn't make a lot of sense I was convinced. He gets up, gets dressed, showers, and wears his orange Halloween underwear I joke. He wears some bright orange Armani underwear. He tells me that I'm free to hang around and just make sure his dogs don't get out. I hang around for about an hour and some, then take off about 9:50.

While there wasn't a lot of talking about deep issues, the company was worth it, and provided some reassurance I needed.



So what's going on for Halloween? Well, I'm having lunch with someone in the blog world today- details later. Then I'm going to either hang out with The Guy later and watch movies, or go to a hockey game with Linda, her husband, and son- they have a suite they won for being a high roller in the players club at the casino. I was also invited to a party at a house of a teacher whom I work with.

My parents are going to a Halloween party at John's parents house. They have the best costumes. My dad is going as Harry Potter and dying his hair jet black. My mom is going as Dolly Parton. My mom has a blue suit with rhinestones all over it, and my mom is getting her hair styled to look like Dolly's today. It looks so awesome!!! My dad is going as Harry Potter. He could have gone as Porter Waggoner, which my parents were originally going to do, but he didn't want to follow in theme. The theme of the party is TV shows/movies.